Enter A Chaotic Week, Stage Right

 

Just because you're not sick doesn't mean you're healthy.  ~Anon 

Last week was in a word: absolutely crazy with a little bit of chaos and a lot stress on the side.  Yeah, that is more than one word, isn't it?  

It all started with Hubby not feeling well on Tuesday.  He decided to just rest up because he hadn't been sleeping well anyway so we took it easy during the day and raked up some leaves later that evening.  On Wednesday, he wasn't feeling all that great, but had to get back into work.  We both did a bunny workout and he took a shower after he had 2 big glasses of OJ.  I was preoccupied with getting the kids (and myself) fed and didn't really notice how slow he was moving as he was getting dressed.  He went out to the car and as I was putting dishes away, I realized that the car was not leaving the garage.

Hubby came back in and said he didn't feel well at all and proceeded to sit down.  I took a good look at him and told him he looked a little pale.  The kids were eating and I was looking up the nearest urgent clinic and he started talking about how he didn't feel well.  He said his back was aching but that the pain was moving around to his abdomen and listed a couple more things that made us think: kidney stones.   

As the morning progressed he looked paler and paler.  I told him that I was going to take him to the ER.  After dropping the kids off at Mom's (THANK YOU, MOM!), I took him to the hospital.  It was early enough and they weren't busy, yet, so we got admitted straight away.  The initial RN opined that he agreed with our medicine.com diagnosis of kidney stones, but that the doctor would be in to see us.  Enter the ER doc, stage left.  Exit hubby, stage right to get a CT scan on his kidneys.  Re-enter hubby stage right, re-exit hubby stage left for a chest X-ray.  Chest X-ray???  What was going on here???

In the midst of the entering and exiting, my dad came in also.  He had just finished up with his exercise related to his bypass surgery last month.  We both wondered aloud what the deal was.  

Enter hubby again back from his chest x-ray.  They told him they were looking for pneumonia. Huh???  He had abdominal pain... not ... well, whatever.  I never went to med school so I'll just keep my mouth shut.  

Re-enter ER doc.  He looked at Hubby, at me, at Dad, back to hubby.  Then said, "Well, gotta tell you.  You're pretty screwed up.  You've got some problems."  Whatever happened to bedside manner???????  He went on to explain that Hubby's blood sugar was 657.  He might as well have told me that Hubby had condition called WJEKRIKLHLJLAJEK.  I asked him what normal blood sugar was and he said, "70-100."  Now we're getting somewhere.  But nowhere good.

He also said that Hubby had a severe kidney infection and that we were going to need to stay for a while to get some things figured out.  SO, for the next three days, we stayed in the hospital and they gave him insulin and antibiotics and more antibiotics and more insulin.  We both slept in the tiny hospital bed and waited for someone to tell us something concrete.  We were told that he had had a massive kidney infection and some blockage.  That caused his blood sugar to elevate.  OR, his blood sugar had started to elevate and that caused the kidney infection.  And he MAY or MAY NOT be diabetic, either type 1 or type 2.  

The only things we knew for sure when we left on Friday night was that his blood sugar was still high and he was going to be on insulin for a little while and a couple antibiotics to clear up the infection AND that I had contracted a nasty little 24-hour stomach virus the second day we were there so my expulsions from both ends had nothing to do with morning sickness.  I'm feeling much better now.

Anyway, Hubby and I really don't have that bad of a diet.  The only real bad habit Hubby had is soda.  Other than that, we eat probably better than most on the budget we have.  Believe me, if we could afford organic, I'd buy it.  We're monitoring his sugar and his diet.  We have reduced the carbs and his sugar is going down, but still at least 80 points above normal.  We're hoping that we can get all this under control but until his infection is completely gone, we're not sure where that's going to leave his blood sugar.  Hopefully a follow up next week with the GP will clear some things up.

I'm very proud of Hubby and his determination to take care of himself and beat whatever this is.  He has told me several times that he'll do whatever it takes and I know he will.  And I'll do whatever I can to help him.

I say all that to say, if you haven't had a physical, what are you waiting for??????

As far as me and #3, we're doing okay.  TIRED is a word that comes to mind.  My belly is also getting large but nothing else is, thankfully.  I just can't believe I'm only 8 weeks and my belly looks like it's at the 4 month mark.  BOOBS is another word that comes to mind.  I think I have gained 2 cup sizes in the past 2 weeks  Had I been prepared with the proper undergarments,  I would be overjoyed, but the chaos of the week before left me no time for bra shopping and I feel like, well, this phrase just popped into my head: She looked as if she had been poured into her clothes and had forgotten to say "when."  ~P.G. Wodehouse

 I'll keep you posted on Hubby's progress and how we are dealing with all the new changes.  Any diabetic recipes would be greatly appreciated. 

Week 7

Everything grows rounder and wider and weirder, and I sit here in the middle of it all and wonder who in the world you will turn out to be.-- Carrie Fisher

7 down.  Only 33 to go.  But (besides me) who's counting?  I'll spare you my whining and suffice it to say that I'm doing the same.  I felt good enough to workout yesterday so that was good, but then I fell asleep in the car on a 25 minute ride.

I took some gender quizzes on line just for fun.  The resounding result has been "It's a girl", but this is based on questions like how fast my leg hair is growing and if my feet are colder than normal.  One site, though, told me "Congratulations, you have a 40% chance of having a girl."  My first thought was, "And a 60% percent chance of having a goat?????"  The Chinese gender charts both said girl and they were accurate for Riley and Boo.  But I know this is all fun and games.

I've been eating slightly better.  I have to stop eating when I'm not really hungry though.  All these crazy nausea feelings are making me just want bread and crackers.  But, the kids right now are down for their naps, so I'll be sneaking in some shut eye too.  I swear I will be more engaging and much more interesting as soon as I have the energy for it.

Patience, Can't Wait Til I Get Some

Adopt the pace of nature:  her secret is patience.  ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

I haven't even hit the 7 week mark and already I'm impatient.  I'm ready to start feeling better, I'm ready to stop being so tired, I'm ready to be able to really work out again, but mostly, I'm ready to be past the first trimester!

I recently saw a little quote (and you all know how I LOVE quotes) that said, "Life is not a journey, the journey is life."   I like that a lot.  But it still doesn't help with my patience.


I really do amaze myself though.  I find it remarkable that, considering the speed at which the last 4 years have flown by, June seems like it will never come.  I know it will.  After all, it comes every year!  A lot is going to happen over the next 9 months.  Thanksgiving, my little guy's 4th birthday, Christmas, New Years, baby girl's 3rd birthday, my nephew's 6th birthday, a trip to Mexico (where I'm sure I'll be looking like a beached albino whale), the Kentucky Derby, my birthday, Mother's Day, Father's Day, and then baby #3.  That's a lot to squeeze into 9 months and that's not even half of it!


I need to start planning.  Well, I've got plenty of time to plan though...  Maybe I'll go a florist to get some roses that I can stop and smell every once in a while.

Missing: My Energy and My Mind. Would Happily Take Either One Back

Life is always a rich and steady time when you are waiting for something to happen or to hatch ~from EB White's book Charlotte's Web

Sleepy and queasy and tired and queasy and sleepy and my knees hurt and did I mention tired?  Chores are getting forgotten and I prefer to relax on the couch at night instead of doing anything else.  Oh,  did I mention I was tired???????

And I'm crying.  Over commercials, Biggest Loser and even the movie Evan Almighty.  Hubby has almost banned me from the TV.  I'm also craving BREAD, crackers, BREAD, pasta, and anything to do with carbs.  I'm trying to keep the carbs clean, but I miss last week's craving for spinach instead of bread!  Last week I was doing well with my workouts, this week, not so much.  We went for a walk over the weekend and I had a couple shooting pains in my abdomen so we shortened our walk and went home.  I felt better as soon as I sat down, but I'm 35, paranoid, pregnant and not taking any chances!


My energy is GONE.  It's a struggle right now to keep up with the kids.  I hope this passes soon.  I miss working out.  I did try a little workout this morning with hubby but made the mistake of doing it on an empty stomach.  Maybe tomorrow I'll try again after breakfast.  


But, the kids are asleep right now for their naps so I'm going to be soon too!  Would love to know how anyone else out there fought pregnancy fatigue!!!!

Happy Halloweekend

If not for chocolate, there would be no need for control top pantyhose.  An entire garment industry would be devastated.  ~Author Unknown  

I have refused to buy Halloween candy yet.  Especially Whoppers, Reece's Peanut Cups, Crunch Bars,  Kit-Kats, Hershey Kisses, York Peppermint Patties, Snickers, 3 Musketeers, or basically anything with chocolate.  Next to Hubby and my kiddos, chocolate is near and dear to my heart.  I can walk past any candy, chips, fried foods, cakes, doughnuts, cupcakes without hesitation, but, to quote Mr. T., I really do pity the fool that gets in my way when I'm on the prowl for chocolate.


Luckily, my baby cravings are of the healthier sort this time around.  I find myself preferring spinach to ice cream and corn salsa to Doritos, but I'm still loving those calorie and sugar rich honey, peanut butter and raisin sandwiches.  (Don't knock it til you try it, folks.)


However, I am hoping that I can maintain my course throughout this weekend and then send the supply of my favorites to Hubby's work and let those women enjoy.  (Helpful to me, definitely.  Somewhat diabolical to them, perhaps.)  


Okay - here are some additional strategies from our friends at Mayo Clinic to help us avoid temptation!

Halloween unofficially marks the beginning of the holiday feasting season. And for anyone trying to watch his or her weight, the scariest part of Halloween is not ghosts and goblins but the ever-abundant Halloween candy. Sugar and mostly empty calories is what you get in candy, and the truth is that most of us don’t exercise enough to warrant those extra calories.

Those cute little fun-size candy bars seem harmless -- and they are, if you can limit your consumption. But that's easier said than done.

"All it takes is an additional 100 calories a day or the equivalent of one snack-sized chocolate bar and most adults will experience weight creep before they even know it," says Lona Sandon, MEd, RD, a spokeswoman for the American Dietetic Association.

When your cupboards are loaded with candy and the kids come home with bags full of even more treats, it's hard to resist. Many people try to lessen the temptation at home by bringing their extra candy into work, thus setting a high-calorie trap for their co-workers.  (oops...)

"Don’t get sucked into the 'see food diet' mentality that makes you want to eat the candy simply because you see it and not because you are hungry," says Brian Wansink, PhD, a Cornell researcher and author of Mindless Eating:  Why We Eat More Than We Think. "We eat more of visible foods because it causes us to think about it more, and every time you see the candy bowl you have to decide whether ... you want a piece of candy or not.

"Simply thinking of food can make you hungry, so when you see or smell something associated with food, like the shiny foil-wrapped Kisses, it can actually make you salivate."

But there are ways to keep your hands out of the candy jar so you can avoid packing on some extra pounds even before the holiday season starts. Here are 10 expert tips to help you avoid the temptation of Halloween goodies, at home and at the office.

1. Buy candy you don’t love. If the candy in your pantry is stuff kids like but that you don’t enjoy, it will be easier to resist opening those bags and diving in. For most of us, that means anything but chocolate. "Sour candy, gummy-textured [candies], hard candies and the others that are not chocolate are lower in fat and calories and typically not the candy we overeat," says Sandon.
2. Out of sight, out of mind. Ask your co-workers to keep their candy jars and bowls inside their desks or stashed in a cabinet in the break room so you won’t be tempted every time you see it. If they want to keep candy on their desks, ask them to use a colored container with a lid so you can’t see inside.
3. Savor one piece of your favorite candy a day. Decide what time of day you most relish the sweet stuff, and save your special treat for that time. Then sit back and slowly savor the taste sensation. "It is so easy to pop a piece of candy into your mouth mindlessly and not get the full enjoyment you would get if you saved it and ate it when you know you will enjoy it the most," says Sandon. Indulge your sweet tooth on occasion, because denying yourself completely could lead to an all-out binge.
4. Chew gum. Sugarless gum gives your mouth a burst of sweet sensation for very few calories. "Studies have shown that gum chewing can also help [you] relieve stress, mentally focus on tasks, satisfy a sweet tooth, overcome the urge to eat candy, and help manage hunger pangs to hold you over until your next meal," says Sandon.
5. Replace the candy with better choices. Make the see-food diet work in your favor by putting out a bowl of colorful fruit or veggies in place of the candy.
6. Move the candy jar. Wansink and colleagues have done studies on how frequently people eat candy when it is within reach, out of sight, or requires them to get up to reach the jar. "If you have to get up to get a piece of candy, it is not always worth the effort, whereas when the candy is convenient, consumption is higher," says Wansink.
7. Count the empty wrappers. It's so easy to pop fun-size candy bars into your mouth that you can lose track of how quickly the calories are adding up. "If you keep the wrappers on your desk, it will remind you of how many you ate and hopefully inspire you to exercise moderation and stop after one or two," says Sandon.
8. Take a walking break. Getting away from your desk for a breath of fresh air can invigorate you and help you get over the mid-morning or mid-afternoon slumps that are often mistaken for hunger. 
9. Manage your hunger. Eat breakfast before coming to work and plan for a few healthy snacks along with a satisfying lunch. Your preplanned meals with keep you feeling satisfied and make you less likely to raid the candy bowl.
10. Sip on a low-calorie beverage. Keep your hands and mouth busy by drinking a zero-calorie cup of hot tea (rich with disease-fighting antioxidants) or big glass of water. And light hot chocolate can satisfy your sweet tooth for few calories than most fun-size chocolate bars.

Happy Halloween, all!  

Stay safe and have fun!

I Get a Passenger on my Journey

You should never say anything to a woman that even remotely suggests that you think she's pregnant unless you can see an actual baby emerging from her at that moment.  ~Dave Barry, "Things That It Took Me 50 Years to Learn"

Well, I've been trying to avoid bread but I just found out there's a bun in the oven!  Hubby and I are very excited and so are grandparents.  It's very early.  5 weeks early.  Even though I have no reason to think this pregnancy will be anything but ordinary, I am 35 and just a little nervous.  My doc told me that I was perfect  to make babies at my last visit so that is some comfort though.


Now it's time to shift my focus - but only slightly.  Now more than ever nutrition is essential!  I must maintain a good weight.  I can't and won't let myself gain 65 or 75 pounds like my last 2 pregnancies.  I can't afford that at all.  But I won't sacrifice Baby's health by restricting calories either.  So, here's the deal....


We'll continue to learn about nutrition together and make the right choices, knocked up or not.  I'm going to continue to exercise but a little bit lower impact and I'll stay with the 3 pound weights.  I'm going to put a tracker with my weight gain and how far until D-Day.  Right now I'm at 138 and it's 243 days till the baby makes a grand entrance.


I would definitely appreciate any words of wisdom from mommies who have actually kept their weight in check during pregnancy and from those mommies over 35.  Thanks for your prayers and support!!!! 

My Personal Trainer

A man's health can be judged by which he takes two at a time - pills or stairs.  ~Joan Welsh

Over the weekend, I'd had a particularly long Saturday starting with a mound of laundry I didn't get to on Friday, a soccer game for my 3 year old, lunch with some friends, then back home to do more chores and try to finish my spring 2010 cleaning before winter.  I was beat and my 3 year old asked me when I was going to do my video.  I told him later several times and finally he said, "Mom, but you need to do your video!!!"


I wish I could tell you that I did, but it was already 8:30 by that point and I was running on fumes.  I could tell he was frustrated with me and the next morning when I did in fact do my video, he happily came downstairs to join me.  I feel bad that I let him down, but it cracks me up how important it is to him at 3 (well almost 4) years old that I work out.  I love it!


On another note, I took my measurements today.  I've lost 2 pounds and 3% body fat from a month ago.  I was hoping for better results but there were a few parties and celebration nights over the month.  But at least the numbers are moving in the right direction now!


My nutrition is definitely getting better.  I'm opting for more salads instead of sandwiches and more egg white omelettes instead of cereal.  It's going well.  And I'm a little surprised that since I took some of the urgency out and decided to enjoy the journey, I'm actually happier and doing better on my weight loss plan.  Yay me!


One day this week I do need to get my recipes uploaded.  I'd love to hear some of your favorites too.  And I do apologize for my repeated hiatus.  Sometimes life overtakes planning!

Skinny Is in the Eye of the Beholder

Beauty is about perception, not about make-up. I think the beginning of all beauty is knowing and liking oneself. You can't put on make-up, or dress yourself, or do you hair with any sort of fun or joy if you're doing it from a position of correction. Kevyn Aucion  

Yesterday was a good day!  I managed to make it through on my calorie target and my workout target and I had NO BAD CARBS!  Yay me!  Hubby and I strapped the kids into the jogging stroller last night and even jogged a few minutes.  For those of you who have never jogged with a stroller, just fill a wheelbarrow with about 50 pounds of rocks, super glue your hands to handles and get running.  Oh - and no spilling the rocks, either.  It's not easy, is it?  I did teach my little guy to cheer for me though.  Especially on the hills.  It was great to hear a "GO MOM GO!" as I was about to give up.  It was not so great though when I noticed that he was putting his feet on the front tire, essentially acting a brake, as I was trying to keep up with my track star hubby.  Hopefully we'll be able to do it again tonight.


As I was running, I started feeling self conscience though.  I felt as if my whole neighborhood could see my fat cells and cellulite pulsing and jiggling and heaving up and down with my steps.  Some people make running look so easy.  If you take a look me running (especially behind a stroller) you would never even try to attempt it if you never had before for fear of suffering the fate as me as I strain and struggle to put one foot in front of the other in rapid succession.  My face alone tells a story of such agony and pain that perhaps I could have inspired even more tortuous works from Edgar Allen Poe or Steven King.


But then, I lightened up.  Since I came through my doctor's visit with flying colors, I have eased up on the sense of urgency to lose weight.  I'm healthy!  And yes, I'm excited about being able to put anything on in my closet and know it will look good, but I'm healthy.  I was becoming a little too obsessed with calorie counting - to the point that I was dreaming about food and waking up feeling guilty - that I had lost sight of my goal just to be healthy.  I forgot to stop and smell the roses.  I couldn't see the forest for the trees.  (See where I'm headed with this?)


I want to enjoy life - not calculate it. But there is a balance between the two.  I perceived myself to be unattractive because I'd gained a few pounds.  I perceived myself to be a failure because I didn't stay a perfect size 4.  I can't live like that.  I need to relax and enjoy the journey.  Weight loss shouldn't be a chore.  It should be something done with enthusiasm for the health it brings.  Energy begets energy.  Workouts should be some quality ME time that I take to ensure I'm taking care of myself well enough to take care of my family. 


And that's my new focus now as I continue to stay focused on keeping my health.

Playing Catch Up

The older you get, the tougher it is to lose weight, because by then your body and your fat are really good friends.  ~Author Unknown 

First and foremost, I'm back!!!  After a brief hiatus, I have returned full strength and refocused! 


My physical went very well.  Doc said that cholesterol levels were perfect, blood pressure is wonderful, triglycerides are beautiful, and that she's happy with all my results.  She asked if there was anything else I was concerned about and I told her that I was bothered by the weight I'd gained.  She told me just to take my calories back down to around 1200 and get away from carbs again.  Doc also told me a little trick to see if a food was a good carb or bad one.  If the percentage of carbs is less than percentage of fiber, it's all good.  Otherwise, just back away.


So, I'll try to stick to 1200 calories and stay away from bread.  I think staying away from bread (and bad carbs) will be harder!!!!!  ARG!  I love love love bread.  But I also love love love love my jeans.  The good thing is, I was able to get them on again.  The bad thing is, I still protruded above the waist line. 


But I'm still working on it too.  I had a little bit of a stressful week last week and kind of lost my focus for a few days.  I missed a day of the video so have started counting all over again!  Today is day 1 - again!  My soon to be 4 year old joined me.  He wanted to workout too and snatched up my 3 pound weights.  I was stuck using the 5 pound weights and struggled through.  Really - over just 2 pounds!!!  It was definitely a good workout though and I realized that I probably should be using the 5 pounders anyway from now on.  Especially on level 1!!! 


I got a new video from the library that I'm going to try too.  I'm kind of nervous though.  Wouldn't ever want Jillian to think I was cheating on her. 


Goals for this week:
video every day plus 20 min additional cardio
NO BAD CARB BREAD
keep calories around 1000-1300
get closet ready for winter (hey- goals don't need to be ALL about weight loss!)
get digital scale
lose 1-2 pounds


We'll see how I do!

Keep It Moving!

You grew it, you lift it! -Jane Fonda

 Yesterday was my first attempt at Level 3.  There was a brief moment in between the jumping jacks while holding free weights and doing traveling pushups that I wondered if Jillian Michaels had ever been involuntarily committed for being absolutely insane.  But that thought didn't linger too long.  It was replaced with, "How am ever going to get through this!?"

But I did.  And let me tell you, the feeling was wonderful.  I did miss a workout over the weekend.  My BFF was in town from North Carolina and I just couldn't get it done on Sunday.  But that was Sunday. 

Other than that, the workouts are going great.  I feel stronger.  I feel accomplished.  I look forward to doing it most days.  Today I'll admit I'm a little sleepy and will have to light a fire underneath my rear, but I know I'll do it.  So far I haven't seen huge results as far as movement on the scale, but I feel lighter and I have that spring back in my step.  I feel more solid, less jiggly, and overall just better.  I want to start getting up in the mornings to do some more cardio in addition to the video.  I'll try to start that tomorrow.  Last night for some asinine reason I chose to watch Monday Night Football even though I can't stand the Jets and Favre was just plain irritating me.


No more.  Now I love football just as much, probably more, than the average chick, but I've got to start sticking to my bedtime so I can get moving in the morning.  The outcome of anything on TV or reading just one more chapter in a book has NO impact on my life like just getting up and working out does.


Okay, enough talk.  Time to move!!!!

Let's Get Physical

The best six doctors anywhere and no one can deny it
Are sunshine, water, rest, and air, exercise and diet.
These six will gladly you attend, if only you are willing.
Your mind they'll ease, your will they'll mend and charge you not a shilling.
~Nursery rhyme quoted by Wayne Fields, What the River Knows, 1990

Well, I got the initial bloodwork for my physical done this morning.  It was a fasting lab so you can bet I had my protein bar ready in my purse as soon as they pulled the needle out.  My follow up is Friday and I'm anxious to see the results.


The last physical I had was about 6 years ago.  I was in top form.  The doc said it was actually a pleasure giving me the results and that he wished more people had interest in their health.  He said most people just come to see him when they're sick and not to just make sure they're well.


I'm hoping that my results will be almost as good.  But we'll see.  After 2 babies and the occasional chicken nugget and healthy pours of wine, well, we'll see. 


I've got to improve my cardio.  I know that much.  Lately hubby and I have been jogging a little bit but I always get winded so quickly.  He was a track star and I definitely was NOT.  Hubby can (and has) literally run circles around me, but encourages me the whole time.  We did a 5K three months after our son was born.  I thought I was going to die.  I had gained over 60 pounds during my pregnancy and was struggling to get fit again.  Hubby could have run the whole thing, picked up our post-race bagels, gone to get the car and have it nice and toasty warm (it was snowing during this race!), and take a quick nap in the time it took me to cross the finish line.  But he stayed with me.  I couldn't keep the pace of his long legs and he couldn't keep my walking pace so he just kind of jogged around me, offering me words of love and encouragement.  Seriously, that's love!!


Then, I had an excuse (kind of).  Now, not so much.  I want to run with him like I did a couple years ago.  We ran a 5K, 10K, and 10 miler all within 2 months and had a blast.  So, I found a great running plan that I'll be following.  We already walk quite a bit, but we're starting to kick it up a notch.


I'll keep you posted on the progress.... OH - and my physical!! 

This is a great inspirational story about running!

You don't have to be an athlete -- or even aspire to be one -- to start running.

Just look at Jim Scott. In January 2003, a month after he turned 60, Scott began running. That November, he finished the New York City Marathon (it took him six hours).

Scott, a radio-talk show host in Cincinnati, Ohio, didn't do much in the way of exercise before then. He played golf as often as he could but never found the time for regular workouts.

"When I turned 60, I thought it was a good time to reassess things," says Scott. "I started thinking, 'These 36-inch (waist) pants I've worn all my life are getting a bit tighter.'"

Scott decided he wanted to get in better shape, feel comfortable in his pants again, and improve his golf game. Oh, and there was one more impetus to try running: "I'm married to a marathon runner," he says.

Scott himself never intended to run a marathon. He simply wanted to go on Sunday morning runs with his wife, Donna Hartman, and keep up, he says. But sometimes running can surprise you.

Maybe you just want to run around your neighborhood, or explore a new one. Maybe you want to challenge your body in a different way, to tone up, or lose weight. Whatever your goals, says Scott's coach, Julie Isphording, running is an excellent exercise for a beginner to try.

"It's cheap, easy, and the perfect thing to do with a friend," says Isphording, a former marathoner and host of two health and fitness radio shows in Cincinnati.

Running's benefits include improved cardiovascular hearth, lower blood pressure, lower cholesterol, a revved-up metabolism, and a sense of self-esteem, says Isphording.

"You can go for a run in the morning and finish at your driveway with your hands in the air and you've had success before 7 a.m.," she says. "This is a gift from you to you."

Getting in Gear

Before you take your first step, get yourself a good pair of running shoes.

"It's the most important investment you'll make," says Isphording. She suggests going to a store specializing in running gear, where the staff tends to be knowledgeable about the products, and trying on as many pairs as necessary to find the right ones for you. A good fit is essential; blisters and shin splints are not going to inspire you to run.

And don't even think about running in your regular cross-trainers, tennis shoes, or regular sneakers.

"Running is very traumatic," says Forrest Dolgener, exercise physiologist and professor of exercise science at the University of Northern Iowa in Cedar Falls. "The mechanics of running creates specific kinds of forces on the body. Running shoes are designed to absorb and minimize those kinds of forces."

But don't get too attached to your favorite pair. Running shoes have a limited lifespan, says Dolgener, co-author of The Non-Runner's Marathon Trainer.

"Generally speaking, running shoes have 500 miles of life," he says. "Even though they make look good, shock absorption diminishes after 500 miles."

Start Gradually

Before you start any new fitness program, it's wise to consult with your physician -- especially if you're a man 45 or older or a woman 50 or older, the experts say.

"I always want anyone who's getting started to know their life digits -- blood pressure, BMI (body mass index), cholesterol, blood sugar," says Isphording.

Running is not the best exercise for everyone, Dolgener says. So listen to your doctor and your body.

"The worst thing you can do is start running, get injured, then stop exercising altogether," says Dolgener.

Once you get a green flag from the doctor, don those new running shoes and start out with a combination of walking and jogging. For example, you might alternate walking for five minutes and jogging for two minutes.

Over time, steadily increase the amount of time you spend running until you're able to jog for 20 minutes at a time, suggests Isphording. Once you achieve that, start increasing your distance.

For someone who has been sedentary, Dolgener recommends starting only with walking, then progressing to brisk walking before adding any jogging.

"Progression is the key element for someone who hasn't done this," says Dolgener.

Your cardiovascular system will adapt more easily than your musculoskeletal system, says Dolgener. People don't usually give up running because their hearts can't adapt but because of injury. Gradually conditioning yourself with a combination of walking and running gives your body time to adapt to the new stress on the joints and muscles.

"When I first started," recalls Scott, "Julie said, 'Do you think you can run for 15 minutes?' I said, 'Are you kidding me?'

"I ran about 45 seconds. I was amazed at how little I could do." But he plugged through it.

"The first two weeks are difficult," Isphording warns. "Getting out the door is the hardest thing ever. Once you get past that, then you get it, your body starts feeling good and wants to go out and play."

To keep your body feeling good during your runs, our experts offer these tips:

• While you're running, be sure you can pass the "talk test": You should still be able to carry on a conversation. Keep your pace comfortable so you won't burn out too quickly. "It's much better to run too slow than too fast," Isphording says.
• Instead of tracking the miles you run, count time. "Don't get caught up in measuring distance, and that you ran faster than yesterday. Go for time," Isphording says.
• As you build up past 20 minutes, be sure to stay hydrated. This is especially important during the warm-weather months. "Know where the water is, where the park is, where the gas station is -- or you can stash water along your route ahead of time," Isphording says.
• In addition to running, do strength training to build muscle and bone density and protect against injury. A 20-minute strength workout a couple of times a week is all you need. To get started, get a personal trainer to write out a program you can do at home -- or get a video.
• Save stretching for after your run, when your muscles are warm. Stretching cold muscles increases the risk for injury.

Sticking With It

To stay consistent with your running program, keep a running journal or log, the experts suggest. At the beginning of the week, plot out when you plan to run and for how long, and commit it to paper. "Write down something on a piece of paper and put it in your sock drawer," says Isphording.

Setting specific goals -- whether it's time, distance, weight loss or cholesterol -- will also inspire you to stay on track.

Another thing that helps: finding a friend to run with. Having a partner to meet you at the mailbox will keep you honest, says Isphording.

"Ninety percent of running is just showing up, getting in the game, getting off the sidelines," she says.

Inside or Out?

Is it better to run on a treadmill or outside? You can get a great cardiovascular workout either way, and there are benefits to both, the experts say

With a treadmill, you're never too far from home, says Isphording. It's a good choice if you're injured or rehabbing an injury -- or just feeling a little intimidated about running outdoors.

"There are no stoplights, no dogs, no cars, no pollution," she says. And, of course, bad weather isn't an issue. Treadmill running can be lower-impact too, as well. Dolgener equates it to running on grass.

But a treadmill doesn't quite simulate the outdoors.

"When you're outdoors, you're getting fresh air," Isphording says. "Running during the sunlight you get vitamin D, which women really need to absorb calcium. You have the scenery -- you can discover parts of your city or town, or if you're traveling, it's a great way to see a city. It's better with a group of people, and easier to do with a family."

When Not to Run

Running is not for everyone, say the experts. If you have an injury or disability, or if running is painful for you, try cycling, cross-country skiing, swimming. They all work.

"The advantage to running is it doesn't take any equipment except shoes, you can do it anywhere, and it's convenient," says Dolgener. "It's one of the best cardio-respiratory activities you can do. The bad news is, it is very traumatic, and the trauma is more prevalent the longer and harder you go."

But if you can run, why not go ahead and get out there?

 

"I can promise you this," says Isphording, "you will never regret a run. There's hardly anything in life you can say that about. You'll regret a chocolate sundae.

I Keep Good Company

You are worried about seeing him spend his early years in doing nothing.  What!  Is it nothing to be happy?  Nothing to skip, play, and run around all day long?  Never in his life will he be so busy again.  ~Jean-Jacques Rousseau, Emile, 1762

I got a surprise while I was on Day 8 of the 30 Day Shred.  My little guys who I thought were happily playing upstairs, came to join me.  Riley has joined me on my workouts before and so has Boo.  In fact, the other night while I was doing my video, she climbed up on the elliptical machine and started pumping as fast as her little 2 1/2 year old legs would take her.  When I was ready to head back upstairs, she told me, "Mom, be quiet.  I have to concentrate."


I love it when my kids join me to exercise.  We were doing hip circles to warm up and Boo had her little hands on her hips and was carefully swaying around and around.  I had decided to do level 1 today but incorporated a lot of the more challenging level 2 stretches and cardio in.  When, instead of doing punches, I did "skaters", Riley told me, "Um, Mom?  You're doing it wrong."  He's paying attention.


I love to see their little legs flailing spastically as they try to do jumping jacks.  They just haven't mastered the concept of arms and legs out, arms and legs in.  It's more of a ARMS OUT LEGS IN ARMS TWIRL LEG JUMP RUN ARMS LEGS IN motion. 


I even love when I'm down on the floor grunting through the ab workouts and they take my weights and look like miniature Hulk Hogans the way their little muscles strain as they attempt to do bicep curls.  Seriously, they're pretty cute. 


But one of the things I love best is that Hubby and I are setting good examples that exercise is important.  I have always struggled with my weight.  All through my childhood I was always a little overweight.  When I was in my early 20's I was over 200 pounds.  I had quit smoking and started eating.  I was miserable. Finally when I couldn't even walk up the stairs to my 2nd floor apartment without having to stop, I had had enough.  I taught myself how to eat and made myself exercise.  Eventually I got to a healthy weight.  And at 140 I'm not completely unhealthy now, just trying to get back into my clothes. 


Anyway (have I mentioned I love tangents, too?), kids struggle enough.  I don't ever want weight to be an issue with my kids.  I'll admit their diet needs some improvement, but I'm working on that too.  I have started serving EVERYONE a salad before dinner now.  That way they are so hungry they'll eat vegetables no matter what. (hee hee! my diabolic little plan is working too!)


Hubby and I may not be perfect role models, but we are getting some things right!

Budgeting For Health

"Another good thing about being poor is that when you are seventy your children will not have you declared legally insane in order to gain control of your estate."

Woody Allen

Before hubby and kids, I had no problem staying on the health train.  (Quick reference to a t-shirt I saw the other day... "I didn't say it was their fault, I said I was going to blame them.")  I belonged to a gym where I could go at my leisure any time I needed or wanted.  I could afford to buy Atkins Bars, South Beach meals, every book about getting fit that I could get my Books-A-Million book club member hands on, and cute little workout clothes which I wanted to go to the gym to show off.  I was the captain of my vessel and the wind in my sails.

5 years later enter in: mortgage payment, utility bills for an old drafty house, car payments, insurance, food for 4 people, clothes for 2 kids growing faster than dandelions on Miracle Grow, the emergencies of everyday life and the occasional date night that (albeit few and far between) can rack up some bucks.  And all this on one income.  

Hubby and I talked when I was pregnant with Baby #1.  I was working at a University with fairly good benefits and a mediocre job title making a mediocre salary.  We decided to be done with the mediocrity and tighten our belts so I could raise our son.  (We didn't know at the time that we would also be raising a daughter 13 months after our son was born but that's another story.)

There have been a few occasions when I consider that finances might be a bit easier if I worked, but then I usually feel a little tug on my trousers by a little hand that's attached to a little person asking me for a hug or for juice or to tell me that he or she just flushed some mardi gras beads down the toilet.  In any case, I know I'm exactly where I belong.

It is harder to keep on the healthy train now.  At least for me.  I have to plan my workouts again and convince myself that I don't need to taste their chicken nuggets to make sure they're cool enough.  There are things that Hubby can eat (like Ding-Dongs, Doritos, Nestle Crunch Bars, and potatoes) that I would love to eat but just can't without paying the price - so I choose not to.  I never used to have these things in my pantry so they were never an issue.  Now, to be clear, I rarely ever buy these things but somehow (ah-hem, hubby) they make their way into the house, then the pantry, and (until lately) in my thighs!!!!

And one of the most dangerous things about these little diet sabotagers is that they are SO convenient.  Just walk by the pantry, OH - look, it's open, I just need to shut this door, right after I grab a handful of animal crackers FOR NO FRICKIN' REASON!!!!!!!!! AND (while I'm at it) WHY FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HEALTHY AND NUTRITIOUS, DOES A PACKAGE OF HOT DOGS (loaded with calories and fat and all things ugly) COST NINETY NINE CENTS AND FOR A POUND OF STRAWBERRIES I HAVE TO PAY THREE DOLLARS??????????

Okay, I'm done now.  Had to get that out.  

(Breathing in and out.....)

So, the million dollar question is - why does it always come down to money?  Actually that's NOT the million dollar question just something I was thinking while I was typing this.  The REAL million dollar question is, how to stay fit and on a budget?  

What are you looking at me for?  I have no idea.  I clip coupons - LOTS of coupons.  And I love them.  BUT I need to do more.  Hopefully this little article I found will be beneficial to both of us!

Healthy Eating on Any Budget

By JD Hoopes

Preparing healthy meals for your family or yourself on a daily basis can seem like a tough task. Many of us still tend to spend too much because we are pulled in by merchandising tricks at the grocery store. Advertisements suck us in by telling us that we need their product to be healthy, so we rationalize that it is worth the cost. Even if it is a product we would have never purchased if we had not seen the ad. 

In addition, just as many of us have a hard enough time thinking of more than a handful of healthy meals to prepare. We get into the habit of making the same dish over and over again. Just remember, you are in control of your budget, your kitchen, and your meals. With just a little creativity and a heap of self-control, you can enjoy great meals at little cost.

The myth that you have to sacrifice quality food when your on a budget is just that, a myth. No more can you use the excuse that junk food costs less. Quality, healthy food can be eaten on a daily basis, even on a bare bones budget. Lets review some simple tips of healthy eating that will just about tighten you wallet for you.

First, drink more water. Cutting out the colas and the juices and the sports drinks will save you a bundle and your body won't even miss them. You'll feel better because your more hydrated and you'll most likely have more energy than even drinking sugary sports drinks.

Second, limit junk food and alcohol. Reaching for the bag of chips instead of some freshly chopped carrot sticks because it supposedly costs less is nonsense. You'll most likely go through that 2.50 bag of chips almost in one sitting. If you had reached for that fist full of carrot sticks that cost about a dollar at the grocery store. You'll not only reap the nutritional benefits, but you'll feel more satisfied on less food from all the fiber.

Third, spice up your week with a variety of foods. You will likely go back to old junk food habits if you are bored with your healthy eating. So make a point to use a variety of foods every week.

Healthy eating takes some commitment and sometimes even a change of lifestyle. Though, once good habits are formed, they are easier to keep. A simple and non-intimidating way to approach these three tips on healthy eating is to only conquer one at a time. One week, drink more water. The next week, cut back on junk food and alcohol. Week three, work on choosing a variety of foods to prepare your meals with. It doesn't take rocket science to eat healthy on a budget, just commitment and a plan.

Next, start setting aside time each week to plan your meals. You can have stir fry Tuesday or pasta Friday. Every single meal of every day of the week doesn't have to be different. A little predictability is great for a budget. Just make sure to throw in a little variety now and then.

This is also a good time to plan your shopping trips. One key tip for staying on budget and eating healthy is to purchase just the items on your grocery list. Don't let emotional advertisements or stress get the better of you at the grocery store. Be in charge of your budget and have your emotions in check. You should also eat a meal or snack before going grocery shopping. This way you are not tempted to grab a whole slew of items that taste great, but aren't on your list. Sticking to your list and knowing how much you are going to spend ahead of time is real budgeting power.

Now that you've learned to eat wisely and plan your meals ahead of time, you can have fun with it! Replace that bag of potato chips and hamburger with some savory grilled mushrooms atop an inexpensive lean cut of beef or chicken. Replace your Mac n' Cheese with bow-tie pasta, marinara sauce and low-fat mozzarella. Go back to your old, dusty, recipe books and go through them with a plan to cook something new once a week. Likely, you'll find yourself overwhelmed by all the new dishes you want to create. Most importantly, you'll discover that just by using simple shopping and healthy eating techniques, you can certainly enjoy fine living on a budget.

Accountability Time

“A goal without a plan is just a wish.” - Larry Elder

Last week:  Weight:  140.  Body fat:  27.5%.  BMI:  22.6.  
This week;  Weight 140.  Body fat 29% (UM - WRONG DIRECTION)  BMI: 22.6

Goals were:
Video every day. Done.

Walking 3 miles with family at least 4 days.  Only got in 3 walks.

Log food.  Failed miserably.

No more than 3 alcoholic beverages this week.  None at all.
Get healthier recipes.  Got some.  Now need to put in Yummy Good Stuff Blog.
Lose 1.5 pounds.  Nope.  I need to get a new digital scale.  Mine stopped working so I will do that today so I can get a good reading.

Okay.  Things I am doing well:  I did get my video in every day.  That's a good thing.  Is it enough?  Apparently not.  I do feel stronger and lighter but I need to do more.  No beers or wine definitely helps with working out.

Things I'm sucking at.  Not logging my food.  I'm obviously eating way too much.  I can't keep a running total in my head anymore.  To say that I'm aggravated at myself would be a severe understatement.  To say taht I'm embarrassed and frustrated would also be and even more severe understatement. 

Logging food really does help and I haven't done it.  ARG!!!!  I have gotten back into that bad habit of just passing by the pantry and grabbing some pretzels or crackers just because.  Now I'll admit that this week was a little stressful and I was out of my routine.  But I shouldn't even try to use that as an excuse.  What I feel should have absolutely nothing to do with what I eat.

So, here are the goals for this week:

Video PLUS 20 minutes cardio
4 walks of 3 + miles
Logging food
Only 2 alcoholic beverages if any at all
Lose 2 pounds

I think the quote of the day needs to be repeated.  “A goal without a plan is just a wish.”  So, I think for logging food, I need to log all the food I plan to eat at the beginning of the day. Then no calories sneak up on me.  I plan to keep daily calories between 1100 and 1400.  


This reality check was really needed.  Now time to fix the stuff that I continue to screw up!!!   RING RING  Here's my wake up call!  This just goes to show I can't just continue to give my health and weight attention every once in a while.  I can't completely dedicate myself one day and be lazy and gluttonous the next.


To my readers, I apologize for letting us down. 

Portion Control

My doctor told me to stop having intimate dinners for four.  Unless there are three other people.  ~Orson Welles

The other night, hubby brought home some ice cream.  The full-leaded fat and sugar kind.  As I was reading the label, I thought it really didn't look that bad.  At around 130 calories and 7 grams of fat, I thought I could go ahead and indulge.  Then I saw the portion size.  One half of a cup.  Half a cup. That's all.  Just half.  Well, could half a cup really be that small?  So, I got my measuring cups out.  Half a cup is very tiny.  And, probably not even worth it.  (Even though I love ice cream.)  I remember the last time I had ice cream and didn't look at the label.  I probably had about 4 servings in one bowl!  No wonder my jeans and I are at odds.


I'm not much for measuring.  I'll admit it.  When I'm cooking, I rarely ever get out the measuring cups.  I eyeball it and then go from there.  I think that's why I like cooking more than baking.  With baking, you have to be exact.  And I, to say the least, am not an exact kind of person.


So, in order to keep my portions under control, I have had to start measuring.  The only thing I haven't had the guts to measure is peanut butter.  I love peanut butter and apples.  The portion size for peanut butter is 2 TBS.  That's all.  I pile up 2 tablespoons on my saucer ....  I just need to know how much more than that I pile on.

But, dear readers, I promise that the next time I get the peanut butter, I'll practice what I preach.


Here are some rules of thumb and helpful hints when it comes to portion sizes:

MAKING SENSE OF PORTION SIZES Many of us tend to underestimate the amount of food we eat and tend to overestimate the recommended portion sizes for many foods. For example, try pouring out your usual portion of pasta and measure it! Then, compare it to the label portion size. Chances are, you're eating two, three, four or more times the amount on the label. If you are confused when reading a food label, try relating the portion size of a serving to everyday items. It is an easy way to visualize what a true portion size looks like. Woman's fist or baseball—a serving of vegetables or fruit is about the size of your fist A rounded handful—about one half cup cooked or raw veggies or cut fruit, a piece of fruit, or ½ cup of cooked rice or pasta – this is a good measure for a snack serving, such as chips or pretzels Deck of cards—a serving of meat, fish or poultry or the palm of your hand (don't count your fingers!) – for example, one chicken breast, ¼ pound hamburger patty or a medium pork chop Golf ball or large egg—one quarter cup of dried fruit or nuts Tennis ball—about one half cup of ice cream Computer mouse—about the size of a small baked potato Compact disc—about the size of one serving of pancake or small waffle Thumb tip—about one teaspoon of peanut butter Six dice—a serving of cheese Check book—a serving of fish (approximately 3 oz.) Eyeball it! Take a look at the recommended serving sizes on the new USDA MyPyramid Food Guidance System. Get out a measuring cup or a food scale and practice measuring some of your favorite foods onto a plate, so that you can see how much (or how little!) a ½ cup or 3-ounce serving is. This will help you "eyeball" a reasonable serving!

Improving Our Literacy Rate

As I see it, every day you do one of two things: build health or produce disease in yourself. - Adelle Davis

Quick question.... Do you read food labels?  Even glance?  Or do you study them?  

The FDA made it mandatory to include nutritional info on all foods a few years back.  I have been surprised by some of my findings.  For example, did you know that Ramen Noodles have 7 grams of fat per serving and that 1 packet is 2 servings?  Did you know that a Premium Southwest Salad with Crispy Chicken has 20 grams of fat and 440 calories?  And if you use the Southwest Dressing, go ahead and add 100 calories and 6 grams of fat.  Oh, and those smoothies may be low fat, but the large has 70 grams of sugar! 

Nutritional information is available everywhere, so why don't we look at it?  Or, if you're like me, we can look at it, but think if we only have 1/2 serving 10 times a day, that doesn't count.  Well, I'm going to start getting religious about reading those labels again.  I had no idea that some of those "healthy" microwave meals have almost half your daily allowance for sodium and that American Heart Association says that even the Daily Recommended Allowance is really too much.  (We'll talk more about sodium tomorrow.)

My challenge is this:  just go in your pantry, take out your favorite goodies and see where your calories are coming from.  Some things can sneak up on you.  

The FDA a great resource for reading food labels.  Just click here and soak up the knowledge!